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It’s New Year’s Eve

It’s New Year’s Eve

And I think I want a nap. Finished painting the hallway, went to Lowe’s, Target (where I got nothing) and KMart. Had lunch. Went to ShopRite and the liquor store. Touched up the paint, where I could now see the spots, since hubby had put up the light fixture I bought at Lowe’s. Cleaned up the kitchen a bit, made salsa.

We’re having all kinds of hors d’ouvres and finger foods for dinner tonight, and we’re going to watch the Twilight Zone marathon on the Sci-Fi channel.

Thinking about some of the things that got me angry this year also made me feel very thankful. I’m a woman in America, rather than in Pakistan, where my relatives can kill me for “honor”, or in Brazil, where it’s also legal for husbands or boyfriends to do so, or India, where I can be burned alive by my husband if my parents don’t give him enough money. I’m glad we don’t live in a Muslim country, where a woman can be mutilated by her husband for dogmatic reasons, or in Uganda, where a psychotic “Christian” leader kidnaps children and forces them to fight and kill – and while the boys are spared sexual slavery because that goes against the Bible, somehow raping little girls falls under the Lord’s auspices. Living where we do, I can get a good laugh at the Scientologist anti-psychiatry museum, where they cast aspersions upon psychiatry as a profit-motivated institution. I can get onto the internet and order one of those bumper stickers that says “Will one of you interns please give him a blow job so we can impeach him?” and put it on my van without fear. (Don’t worry, hubby, I won’t. I’m also thankful for a hubby that allows me to put on bumper stickers that make him embarassed to drive my van.) Intelligent Design has begun being tossed from the unfortunate school districts that decided it belonged in the science curriculum, thanks to sensible judges. Fox News and its “correspondents” have gone so far off the deep end that their credibility is eroding away with more and more facility every day.

As well, I’m thinking of all the things particular to my own life that I’m thankful for – somehow the New Year brings this out for me more than the Thanksgiving holiday. We’re healthy and happy, we’re enjoying our new home and schools and neighborhood, and it seems the more we look forward, the more things look better.

So, Happy New Year to you and yours! Enjoy it, make the most of it, and be thankful for all the good things you have!

Another Good Day!

Another Good Day!

   So, it’s almost the new year.  The roofer is coming to fix the roof within the next week.  We have more boxes down from the storage unit.  The girls and I made samosas and had a wonderful time – a big granite counter with access from both sides makes for great communal cooking experiences.  I painted the hallway into the family room, so we can assemble the shelves and put away more stuff tomorrow, and we made individual homemade pizzas for dinner.

While we were having dinner, I got a call from Laura – she was in the neighborhood with her kids, so she stopped by for an hour and everyone had a lovely time.  Now it’s quiet – I think it may be time for the hot tub!

Sooo. . .

Sooo. . .

Yesterday started with taking a very reluctant dog to the vet.  Poor poochie.  She’s healthy, though.  After that, it was yet another trip to IKEA to get more furnishings.  I had tokli chaat at Bombay Talk in Iselin on the way home.  Mmmm.  Then we assembled the furniture.  Woohoo!

Today was a great day, too, especially for the girls.  I brought them up to the old neighborhood, and they got to play all day at their best friend’s house with a bunch of the girls they liked from school.  I got to hang out with two of my own favorite people (not Gayle, even though she’s one of them!), and – bonus – I’d come up to get a crown replaced on a front tooth, and it was perfect the first time.  We stopped at the storage unit on the way back and got more boxes, and I also managed to squeeze in a trip to East-West for lemon grass and palm sugar and black bean cakes.  Tomorrow there will be much making of Thai curry pastes.  And samosas, which the girls want more of.  And painting of hallway so we can put up bookshelves and empty some more boxes.